The Problem With Money And Sales

The Problem With Money and Sales...

Ok- I know people think I'm this MASTER SALESMAN and shit, but the thought makes me so uncomfortable and creeped out.

People say "Oh, you're such a salesman" and I get insulted,
mostly because I've had trouble generating SALES when people tell me that.

They say that right before they say "No" grin emoticon

So, it's been a struggle for about 20 years now.

I know it doesn't seem like it from your perspective, but if you saw how
many books and audios I've gotten to LEARN to be OK with making money,
you'd realize that I'have spent THOUSANDS on trying to change that.

I'm the guy who has come up with the ideas, plans, and strategies,
but then haven't implemented them because I didn't want to "take"
someone's money.

I was going to write a book on this topic called "Mad at Money"
because in my experience, money is always what has STOPPED
me from doing anything I wanted to.

It's like "Hey! Let's do this awesome thing!" oh wait... 

HOW MUCH is it?

Oh- hell no.

We can't do that- FUCKING MONEY!!!

Always getting in our way of LIFE!

Do you ever feel that way?

For me, Money is what PREVENTS people from
living- If you don't have money, you can't EAT.

That you had better GRAB IT, or someone will GRAB IT from you.

So, it seems like Money is to blame.

But, reading some Neale Donald Walsch, Kiyosaki, and other people,
I was asking myself about assumptions all the time.

"I assume that is true, but what if the OPPOSITE is true?"

So- Is it true that religion is what brings people together?
What if religion is what SEPARATES us? Hmmm.....

And I asked myself to argue the opposite point about Money:

That what if Money is the reason you CAN do everything?

That instead of being what PREVENTS fun, it is actually what
PROVIDES it?

What if Money actually HELPS people enjoy life, and all they have to do
is GIVE IT in order to live more. Not GRAB IT, but GIVE IT.

Well, yeah, yeah, I know about Tithing, and keeping it circulating,
blah, blah, blah.

But no- What if Money is the EXCHANGE of energy, and
we just use these tickets to measure it?

So, if I bend over backwards for my students, that's MONEY
I'm GIVING to them in the form of my energy.

And all they have to do is give me a few pieces of PAPER?

To GET all of THIS energy? Well, lucky them!!

And ALL someone has to do to get coaching from someone
who "Can't Hide HAPPY" is to give her some paper?

But why would they? You have to GIVE IT TO THEM FIRST.

They can't decide that on just a little blurb on a webpage.

They need to experience MORE so they can GET more from you,
so they WANT to GIVE more to you in return.

Something that helped me understand this for myself hit me like
a train recently...

A comedian wants to get paid for shows,
and they want to make people laugh, right?

In order to do that he's got to tell jokes... 

BEFORE he gets the laughs.

I was walking around the house saying:

"Gotta tell jokes BEFORE you get laughs!"

He must tell A LOT of jokes BEFORE the laughs come, and only
when he gets a LOT of laughs, and GIVES many, many jokes,
do people start to give him money to see MORE Jokes.

So- if you want people to give you money for their health, wealth,
and happiness- you've got to GIVE it to them FIRST.

"But then if I give it, why would they pay for it?"

They pay for MORE of it.

They pay for MORE Jokes.

They pay for MORE of you. They pay for more of YOU.

So- I give away teleseminars, dreams, tips, videos,

and people BUY the "more".

In fact, this whole thing I just wrote for you, I'm going to make
available to people- because they want MORE.

and I want to GIVE MORE.

So- THANK YOU!!!!!

For asking for more, and allowing me to GIVE you more.

Straight From A Casting Director's Mouth!

Where have I heard THAT before?



My wife just came back from a Casting Director class, and maybe

you'll recognize the BIG "Pet-Peeve" of that CD:







SEE? That's why I created http://www.NoMoreWaiters.com



I don't need to say anything else, the video speaks for itself.

Choosing the Fiction

A choice can change the direction of your life.

And you choose all the time

It's a choice you make for yourself

and it's a different choice than mine...


I just made up that poem on the fly
I don't know why
I did it on the fly
Perhaps I'll die.

HOWEVER, the question I put forth is WHO do you choose to be? And realizing that you can choose something different all the time, because it's a character choice. So- in every given moment, remember that YOU have chosen who you are- do you like the person you're choosing?

The Webinar to CRUSH 2015

The End Of 2014 "Quit Your Day Job" WEBINAR!

Post by I'm an ACTOR, Dammit.

Ok, so I had a GREAT Idea a little while ago,
and I turned it into "No More Waiters- How To Build Your Acting Business Without A Day Job".

But recently, I held a Mastermind where I took people through three sessions of HOW-TO make websites that pay, and we had a blast. These guys really learned their stuff, and have INCOME-GENERATING SITES. I decided that other people deserved the chance to do that too. So, I'm doing a webinar:

The BAT SHIT CRAZY WEBINAR!!!!

Make sure to get your spot!

http://www.NoMoreWaiters.com/Webinar

You are going to hear stuff you have NEVER heard before, and it will take your 2015 to NEW LEVELS!!

Amazing Baby Beatboxes Like Justin Timberlake!

Baby BeatBoxes!

So, I consider myself a pretty good Beat Boxer, and I decided to give my kid a lesson. I never expected this:

Post by Bones Rodriguez.

And so, just like that, my baby is a Street Legend.

I am probably the luckiest guy in the world because I get to spend all day and night hanging out with my wife and baby, all because I found a simple three-step system for making money from the internet, which we all know is the future. I'm glad I learned how to use the computer to make money before the computer replaced me!

Prince Proves It Again- ANOTHERLOVE Video

You can count on Prince for some hurtful love songs.

Although this is apparently a cover, I was unaware of the original, but this sounds so much like Prince; The ballad part takes a turn and hits the angry part of a breakup.
Just enjoy, and share it:



I got heavily into Prince in College, probably because of all of his insights on sex. Afterwards he kinda stopped all of that after losing his baby, and becoming more and more Jehovah's Witnessed.

Religion does that.

But maybe he's back now.

I'm just glad that I can spend all day at home and listen to the new stuff!

Enjoy!

People With Guns Kill People

People with guns kill people.

Depending on your point of view, that's either a pro-gun or anti-gun statement.

And it may color your view on how we should deal with the problem

of gun violence and killing in general in our country.

The entire debate seems to be about which way we can feel the most safe.

Some people say that if guns aren't allowed at all,

then we can feel safer because no one will have a gun.

Of course, there are illegal guns everywhere, and so the

"bad guys" end up with them whether they are legal or not.

Other people say that when everyone has a gun, we can feel safer

because the "good guys" will be able to stop the "bad guys" 

because he (not she so much) won't be as invincible.

And finally, some people say that only Law enforcement should have guns,

which is a kind of half-measure because it obviously makes guns more available,

but only for people who are sworn to be "good guys".

This makes them feel safer.

Whichever way makes you feel safest is the way you might look at a solution.

But let me question that assumption.

That assumption that your feelings about safety are the goal.

Maybe your feelings about which is safest shouldn't be what we create our laws around.

Maybe instead of looking at things in a "good" and "bad" or

"right" and "wrong" way, we can look at them in a

"Which way Works best, depending on what we're trying to accomplish" way.

You see, if what you're trying to accomplish is a "feeling of safety",

then any or all of these sound like good solutions.

But if instead of relying on your "feelings of safety",

maybe we should be trying to accomplish something else.

The anti-gun people feel safer because they think that less guns

means it's less likely that they'll be shot by one, and yet,

one madman with some armor and a few guns can kill an entire school

full of children without anyone to stop him.

The pro-gun people feel safer with a gun on their hip because they know

that if someone enters a theatre to do harm, that they can stand their ground,

and shoot first. But of course with guns on everyone's hips, someone's fears

can turn a child with skittles and a hoodie into a dangerous thug who must be shot.

So, if we're trying to accomplish a "feeling of safety", we can see that both sides

of the argument are totally "right". They both accomplish their objectives

(feeling safer) with their solution.

So, what about if our goal- that thing we're trying to accomplish- isn't a "feeling" at all?

What if instead what we chose to accomplish with our laws was... 

LESS GUN-RELATED DEATHS.

Less by "bad guys", less by "good guys", less by "accident".

How could we accomplish LESS GUN-RELATED DEATHS?

Can we look at an analogy to find our solution?

What if we wanted to accomplish LESS ABORTIONS.

That's right- I'm going there.

If what we wanted to accomplish were LESS ABORTIONS,

what would be the best way to accomplish that?

Would it be to outlaw it?

Would it be to kill any woman who tried?
Would it be to hand out contraception everywhere and anywhere?
Would it be "morning after" pills for every woman every morning?

Actually, no.

The best way to achieve LESS ABORTIONS would be to have ZERO PREGNANCIES.

Right?

You can't have an abortion without a pregnancy!

So- if what we're trying to accomplish is LESS GUN-RELATED DEATHS,

it seems that the only logical, unemotional, conclusion would be.

NO GUNS.

Can we ensure guns aren't made? Nope.

Can we ensure that the "bad guys" wouldn't get one? Nope.

Can we ensure that a madman wouldn't get illegal guns and kill a school full of kids?
Nope- just like we didn't before.

But- would disallowing them altogether make those things much harder?
Yes.

Would the economy around guns take a nose-dive?

Yes.

Would we accomplish LESS GUN-RELATED DEATHS?

Yes.

Is there proof? Yes- look at the countries that have outlawed them. 

Don't wait for me to tell you- look it up yourself.

I started this by saying that "People with guns kill people."

So, who's to blame? The guns? The People?

And what should we do about it?

Ask another question:

What are you trying to accomplish with your answer?